Hot Girl.

Even in this day and age, many women still think it’s the guy’s role to take the initiative. Few women are confident and liberated enough to make the first move. Many will still wait for the guy to come to them first and if he doesn’t then so be it. If you think that’s unfair – you may be right. But it’s reality and there’s no changing reality. What you can change, however, is your attitude towards women.

Without further ado, here’s a step-by-step guide on how to approach a hot girl successfully.

Do it.

The best way to learn how to approach a woman successfully is to just do it. Have you seen a girl you’re instantly attracted to and would like to get to know more? Then don’t waste time! Just do it! Go to her and get to know her!

Prepare a great first line.

Of course, you can’t do anything without a good plan. So as you take small steps towards your female target, you should already be racking your brains for a great first line or opener. Consider where you are, what you’re doing, and what she’s doing.

Let’s say you’re in the bookstore. Is she looking at a book? Do you like books? If you don’t then don’t pretend that you do. But you can capitalize on your disinterest in books. When you talk to her, say that you’re looking for a book to read and seeing how engrossed she is, you want to know if it’s as good as it looks.

See? That’s not too hard, is it? The truth is, learning how to approach a woman is easier than most guys think. They just don’t have the guts to apply what they’ve learned to get that hot girl.

Let them know you’re fun to talk to.

This is one of the more challenging parts of learning how to approach a woman. But don’t worry because it’s only difficult during your first few attempts. Now that you’ve initiated a conversation with your hot girl, she may or may not welcome your efforts. No matter how she reacts, you need to continue and work hard on getting a reaction from her.

Be fun! Be charming! Every guy can be fun and charming…as long as they don’t let their nervousness get the better of them. Just imagine that you’re talking to your best guy friend. Go ahead and give it a try.

Pay attention to what she is and isn’t saying.

If she finally warms up to you then great! Stop babbling and listen attentively to what she has to say. You want her to know that you respect her thoughts and that you genuinely want to know about what she thinks. If she’s still not talking much then pay attention to non-verbal gestures or body movement. Does she seem to find you boring? Is she still acting wary?

One of the keys to successfully learning how to approach a woman is to change tactics whenever needed. Don’t be stubborn. Don’t be arrogant. If your initial attempt hasn’t worked then move on and switch to another topic and another and another until you finally hit it off!

When it comes to learning how to approach a woman the only time you’ll fail is when you stop trying.